Thursday, 7 February 2013

Looking into my crystal ball- The future of social media

You can't take something off the Internet - it's like taking pee out of a pool.  ~Author Unknown, 1995http://www.quotegarden.com/internet.html

Social media has opened the door to so many positives for the human race as a whole. The positives I see are the ability to lessen judgement on physical attributes, widen the scope for communication on a global platform, the ability to globalise businesses, the ability to transcend race, religion, language or geographical location. That said, I’m a bit of an old chook (not in years of course, I’m only 30) when it comes to what is and is not proper when it comes to social media. I believe there should ALWAYS be a time and a place to be using social media. Also there should be monitoring by parents on their children’s internet consumption, clearly as my previous blog showed, the potential for children to expose themselves to harm online is quite alarming.
            When you get your license, you have to go for a driving test… this assesses your ability to operate a vehicle (which has the potential to harm) in a safe way, and teaches learners all about what you can and cannot do on the road. Why can’t we have the same thing for children in schools? I think it would be an invaluable addition to school curriculum. Should we not teach our children the potential dangers of the internet and how to navigate it safely to avoid harm to themselves and others just as we teach them about road safety?
            The future that I see for social media is much the same as I see it now, a lot of both pro’s and con’s, depending upon the personal use and monitoring for that particular person. The health risks and lack of physical contact using social media are quite worrying for myself, and I believe there is a huge advantage of having ‘people’ skills which may be lost if social media becomes the sole vehicle of communication (http://socialnetworking.lovetoknow.com/Negative_Impact_of_Social_Networking_Sites).
            I have learnt a lot about social media from this unit, but what I have learnt more about in all honesty is myself. My core values, my belief systems and my vulnerabilities when it comes to online usage. It has raised new worries for myself as a parent (like I didn’t already have enough), but has also given me enough information and exposure to issues to be able to combat these problems with confidence and knowledge. From a business perspective I see endless possibilities for social media sites, but without proper guidelines in place, where will it end? I don’t have a crystal ball, but if we lose the ability to communicate in person via body language and context, what is the point of life? It’s great we can run a business meeting with people all over the world via a Skype chat, but how do you know one of the participants isn’t on twitter or facebook at the same time as you are running your meeting? There are certain things that can never be replaced by personal interaction, but social media’s potential to enhance and progress the scope of this communication is huge. Maybe we are the last generations to experience this merging of communication techniques. Who knows? But I am going to hang on and try and keep up with technology for as long as is humanly possible.

Social media’s dark side



Closed Doors

© Jane Kirby
I cry myself to sleep at night
Just wishing it would stop
Maybe tomorrow it will cease
Then again, maybe not

You push me and you poke me
You call me hurtful name
To me it's like a prison
To you it's fun and games

Your heart is made of ice
But it doesn't even deserve that
Mine was once a rainbow
But you have moulded it to darkest black

I hate you, I hate everyone
There is no one I can trust
Are you proud of what you've done?
You've turned my soul into dust

If there was a door I could open
A simple path I could tread
I don't want to be stuck here forever
In this endless spiral of dread.

What a terrible but necessary topic to be covering for our blog this week. The less friendly side of social media seems to be becoming a real issue for people to be aware of for the sake of our futures. Online bullying, heightened risk of sexual predator grooming, and potential for extremist’s exposure and growth are only three of the problems we will be facing as an entire planet, not just individual countries.
            The above poem I have included screams of teenage pain, you want to reach out and hold this child, and tell her that everything will be ok one day. But will it? One study has shown that in the UK 8 out of 10 university staff members has experienced bullying from co workers in the last 6 months (http://news.discovery.com/tech/workplace-cyber-bullies-are-worse-121103.htm). That’s 80%! That is quite a strong number to be going up against. Particularly for teachers, who are helping monitor and guide our children into the people they will be for the rest of their lives. How are we supposed to tell our children that they bullying they are experiencing through high school will eventually go away when everyone ‘grow’s up’. And this is just one of the problems social media presents us with.
            As a mother, the potential for child grooming online terrifies me! The thought that my innocent child could be exposed to a child predator as easily as turning on the computer is an alarming situation. I found some statistics on child predator activity online that was core shaking. 1 in 33 youth received an invitation to meet up with a child predator online within the last 12 months, and 75% of the children interviewed were willing to share personal information with a stranger online (http://www.sentrypc.com/statistics.htm). Wow, maybe I shouldn’t have read that, my kids are banned from computers for the rest of their lives (I am joking of course). But it is one of the many reasons we need to be careful with what our children are exposed to online, and also what they are exposing the world to about themselves, our families and our private lives.
            Lastly the potential for exposure to extremist groups online is quite worrying too! In America, 1018 known extremist or hate groups are displaying information to the public (http://www.splcenter.org/what-we-do/hate-and-extremism). The potential for reach online is immeasurable, and has the potential to expand a hate group rather than let its influence wane. Hate groups shouldn’t be promoted online, they should be quashed! But then there comes the question of free speech, where does it begin and end? I’m not sure, but the more I read the more I worry about the future for my children in this world that is so consumed by social media.